Recently, there is one question that has been popping out in almost every serious conversations i have been in: “what do i want to do?” I have to admit, deciding what you want to be and sticking to it is not an easy task. It takes a lot of courage and determination, but trust me, one of the hardest step is probably taking the first step. Maybe you know what you want but theres questions like “will i make money? How do i go round doing it? Is it possible??” My friends, if theres one thing i learn from all these time is that, aim for the stars, at least if you fall, you hit the trees and not the ground. What you do is not just a work that is supposed to give you money, its supposed to be a reflection of who you are. So if you dont believe or love what you do, i dont see how you are ever going to be successful or good at it. I always think that success and money will come when you love your job.
And for those who still have no idea what you want to do in life, dont worry you are not one and this is a chapter in life that everyone has to go through. I guess if i were you, the first question i will have to ask myself is “what is your definition of success?” I have asked this question to many of my friends and some said “to have children” “to be a good mother” “to have a career that i love” “to be a wife” “to be a tai tai” “to be rich” and trust me, even the most bimbotic answer “to be a tai tai (rich man’s wife) needs a lot of work. Fyi, rich men dont date fat girls with bad skin and ugly hair. There is no shortcuts in life, darling.
As I grow up older, I always hope that God will give me more courage. Courage to speak out when i am unhappy - especially to those close to me, courage to speak out the truth when its covered with lies, courage to help a friend, courage to be true to myself, courage to admit my mistakes, courage to do what i love even when the whole world tells me that i shouldn’t. I believe that everyone needs more of this in life :)
Anyway, I hope that my little thought here helped shed a small tiny little light on some of you and maybe just give you that little push. All the best and God bless. Xx